Introduction

The principle of "leaving and cleaving" is one of the most foundational yet misunderstood aspects of building a successful marriage and family. It is a critical shift that requires couples to redefine their primary relationships, moving from dependence on their parents to establishing an independent, unified marital unit. This principle is rooted in biblical teachings, emphasized in cultural traditions, and supported by psychological research, all pointing to the necessity of creating a healthy dynamic between one’s family of origin and their new family.

In many marriages, the failure to navigate this transition effectively leads to conflicts, misunderstandings, and even emotional distance. The struggle often arises because partners feel torn between their loyalty to their parents and their commitment to their spouse. However, the essence of leaving and cleaving is not about abandoning one’s family—it is about balancing respect for family roots while fully committing to your spouse as your primary relationship.

This module will provide a comprehensive guide to understanding and implementing this principle, ensuring couples can establish a healthy, harmonious relationship that honors both their marriage and their extended family ties.

Key Topics Covered in This Module

1. Biblical and Cultural Perspectives on Leaving and Cleaving
2. Shifting from Parental Dependency to Marital Independence
3. Setting Healthy Boundaries with Parents and Extended Family
4. Managing External Influences on Marriage
5. Practical Steps to Prioritize Your Spouse While Maintaining Family Harmony